You have started editing the sentence before you say it
He says I'm too sensitive.
You have probably started running the sentence through your head twice, checking whether it will count as too much.
Too sensitive is a useful phrase for the person saying it. It moves the problem from what he did to how you are built.
I am not going to tell you he is a bad man. I do not know him, and that is not what you asked.
But notice what the phrase does over time. You stop bringing things up, and then it looks as though there was never anything wrong.
You are not asking whether you are too sensitive. You are asking whether it is safe to say the next true thing.
That is worth taking seriously, and it does not require you to decide anything about your marriage tonight.
Say the actual sentence to me. The one you cut down before it left your mouth. I will not tell you it was too much.
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